Mt. Fuji

I had a list for Japan that was about three trips long.

That’s not an exaggeration. Every time I saved something — a shrine, a market, a neighborhood, a food spot — the list just kept growing. It became obvious pretty quickly that there was no version of this trip where I would see everything. Once I accepted that, planning got easier.

We went for two weeks in November for our first trip. Fall colors, cooler weather, and way too many places I thought we “should” see. At one point I was staring at my notes thinking, this is impossible. I had far more saved than any human could fit into fourteen days without turning the trip into a blur.

That’s when I stopped asking, “How do I see everything?” and started asking, “How do I want this trip to feel?”

Bishamondo Temple

For us, the answer was intentional. Cultural. Not rushed. I didn’t want to sprint from temple to temple all day and collapse at night wondering what we actually experienced. The biggest mistake I wanted to avoid was overplanning every hour. And really, that’s the mistake I see most people make with Japan. They stack too many stops into each day and underestimate how much walking and transit time everything takes. Japan is incredible, but if you plan it like a checklist, you’ll feel like you survived it instead of enjoyed it.

Once I knew the feeling we were aiming for, the route got clearer.

Hozugawa River

Kitaguchi Hongu Fuji Sengen Shrine

We started in Tokyo, spent the bulk of the trip based in Kyoto, did an overnight in Koyasan, added a few nights in Okinawa, and ended back in Tokyo. Osaka was originally on my list, but the deeper I got into planning, the more it felt like another big city stop we didn’t need. We’re more drawn to nature and cultural experiences than city hopping, so we stayed longer in Kyoto instead. That decision eventually led to one of our favorite experiences: an overnight stay at a Buddhist temple in Koyasan.

The single most helpful thing I did during planning was build everything out in Google My Maps. About three weeks before we left, I pinned every place we wanted to go — temples, markets, neighborhoods, train stations. Seeing it all visually changed everything. It showed me what could realistically be done in one day and what absolutely could not. Some stops that looked close on a list were nowhere near each other once mapped.

Traditional Tea Ceremony in Kyoto

That mapping phase is what kept this trip from feeling chaotic. It helped me group days logically so we weren’t zigzagging across cities and exhausting ourselves.

Transportation was the other piece that felt intimidating before we left. Everyone says the train system is easy, but very few explain what it feels like to walk into a massive station in Tokyo and try to find the right platform. We gave ourselves plenty of time for our first shinkansen departure because I knew I didn’t fully understand the layout yet. Once we figured it out, it was fine. But building in that extra time made a huge difference in stress levels.

Insuien Garden in Nara

We also skipped the rail pass after doing the math. It didn’t make sense for our route. Local trains are inexpensive, and we were only taking the shinkansen once. I think a lot of people overbuy passes because they assume they need them.

A few other realities: Tokyo hotel rooms are tiny, packing light matters more than you think, and you will walk a lot. We’re early risers, which is funny in Japan because not much opens early. Convenience stores became our go-to for coffee and snacks before starting the day. By the time most places opened, we had already logged thousands of steps.

One of the best decisions we made was staying longer in Kyoto instead of bouncing around constantly. Having a home base made the middle of the trip feel calmer. From there, we did the overnight to Koyasan and stopped in Nara on the way back. It was a good balance of movement and stability.

Koyasan ended up being one of the most memorable parts of the trip. Staying at a Buddhist temple isn’t something most people get to do. It was expensive, partly because we opted for a private driver instead of navigating multiple trains. At the time, that choice made the experience smoother. Now that I’ve done it once, I’d probably use the train system next time and save the money. But I don’t regret it.

Okuno-in Cemetery

Looking back, the biggest thing that made this trip work was planning ahead and then giving ourselves room within that plan. Flights were booked about seven months out. Once those were set, I had time to map everything, adjust, and build days that flowed well instead of feeling crammed.

If I went back tomorrow, I’d pack lighter, spend a few more nights in Tokyo for the food scene, and explore somewhere off the typical route — maybe a mountain town or a ryokan stay. Now that I’ve seen many of the “must-see” spots, a return trip could feel more like living there instead of trying to see it all.

If you’re planning your first trip to Japan and feeling overwhelmed, that’s normal. There’s a lot you could do. But you don’t need to do everything. Decide how you want the trip to feel, map your priorities, and build from there.

That’s how you experience Japan without turning it into a sprint.

Hanamikoji Street in Kyoto

Paper Lantern in Koyasan

If you’re planning Japan and your notes app is starting to look like a second job, you’re not alone. Mine did too. There’s a lot you could see, a lot you’ll be told you should see, and a lot that will look doable on paper until you actually map it out. The shift for me was realizing I didn’t need to do everything in one trip. Once I focused on pacing, mapped the stops that mattered most, and built the days around how we actually like to travel, the overwhelm settled down and the trip started to feel like ours instead of a checklist. We didn’t see everything, and that ended up being exactly why we loved it. Japan isn’t a one-and-done destination anyway. It’s the kind of place you experience a little at a time — and then start thinking about when you can go back before you’ve even unpacked.

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Italy had been on my list for a long time…and if we were going to make the trip all the way to Europe, I wanted to do it right.

Rome felt like the obvious place to start. It’s one of those cities you grow up hearing about… the Colosseum, the Vatican, the kind of history you don’t fully appreciate until you’re standing in front of it.

We didn’t have months to explore (hopefully one day), so we built a 5-day itinerary that hits the must-see spots without feeling rushed or exhausted.

If you want to experience Rome in a way that actually feels worth the flight… this is exactly how I’d do it.

Day 1: Colosseum, Roman Forum + Palatine Hill

Start with the Colosseum

If there’s one thing you absolutely don’t “wing” in Rome… it’s the Colosseum.

It’s one of the most iconic landmarks in the world, which also means… crowds, long lines, and a lot of standing around if you don’t plan ahead.

We booked a guided tour here, and I’d do it the same way again. Not only do you skip a lot of the chaos, but you actually understand what you’re looking at- which makes a huge difference when you’re standing inside something that’s nearly 2,000 years old.

Walking through it, you start to picture what it must’ve been like during its peak- gladiator battles, packed crowds, and the kind of scale that’s hard to fully grasp until you’re there in person.

We took a private guided tour, and I highly recommend doing the same. The knowledge that the tour guide offers will complete this unforgettable experience. 

Pro tips for Day 1

• Book your tickets in advance- Tickets sell out, lines get long, and you can easily waste hours here if you’re not prepared.
• Go early if you can-Fewer crowds, cooler temps, and better lighting for photos.
• Wear comfortable shoes (this is a big walking day)-You’ll be on your feet for hours—and a lot of it is uneven ground and cobblestone.
• Bring water + snacks- There’s not a ton of convenient options once you’re inside
• Don’t rush the Forum-Give yourself time to wander a bit instead of just walking straight through it.
• Consider a guide or audio tour- Without context, it can feel like “a bunch of ruins.” With even a little background, it becomes one of the most interesting parts of the day.

Then head to the Roman Forum + Palatine Hill

Right next door, and I mean right there, are the Roman Forum and Palatine Hill. Do not skip these.

This is where Rome really starts to come to life beyond just “that’s cool to look at.”

The Forum was once the center of everything… politics, religion, daily life… and now it’s a massive stretch of ruins you can walk through at your own pace. It’s one of those places where having even a little context (again, guided tour or audio) makes the experience so much better.

Palatine Hill sits above it all and gives you some of the best views in the city, plus a different perspective on how everything was laid out.

Plan to spend a few hours here. It’s a lot of walking, but it doesn’t feel rushed- and honestly, this was one of the most interesting parts of the trip once we slowed down and took it in.

Our private guided tour of the Colosseum included these two locations as well.

Day 2: Vatican City

Tour Vatican City

If there’s one day on this itinerary that requires a plan- it’s this one.

Vatican City might be the smallest country in the world, but don’t let that fool you… this place is packed, and it can get overwhelming fast if you just show up without a strategy.

We’re talking about the Vatican Museums, the Sistine Chapel, and St. Peter’s Basilica- all in one area, all incredibly impressive, and all drawing massive crowds daily.

This is another spot where I would not try to do it on your own.

We booked a guided tour and it made the entire experience smoother and actually enjoyable. You move through the museums with purpose, skip a lot of the confusion, and get context behind what you’re seeing instead of just walking past rooms full of art wondering what’s important.

And when you finally step into the Sistine Chapel… it hits differently when you understand what you’re looking at.. 

What to Expect

The Vatican Museums are massive- like miles of hallways massive- filled with centuries of art and history. It’s impressive, but it’s also a lot, so having guidance (or at least a plan) matters.

St. Peter’s Basilica is just as overwhelming in scale. The size, the detail, the architecture…it’s one of those places that makes you stop for a second and just take it in.

Whether you’re religious or not, it’s hard not to appreciate the level of craftsmanship and history in one place.

Plan for This to Be a Full Morning (or More)

This isn’t a quick stop.

Between the museums, the chapel, and the basilica, you’ll want to block off a good portion of your day here… especially if you’re moving at a comfortable pace and not rushing through it.

Day 3: Slow Down — Villa Borghese + Trevi Fountain

Start with Villa Borghese

After two full days of walking through history, this is where I’d intentionally slow things down.

Villa Borghese is basically Rome’s reset button. It’s a huge park right in the city, and it gives you a break from the crowds, the lines, and the constant “go go go” of sightseeing.

You can walk it, rent bikes, grab a drink, or just sit for a bit and take it all in. If you make your way to the Pincian Terrace, you’ll get one of the best views overlooking Piazza del Popolo… definitely worth the short walk.

If you’re into art, you can also book a timed entry to the Borghese Gallery. It houses some incredible pieces, but just know this is more of a structured visit compared to the rest of the park.

For us, this was less about checking a box and more about building in time to actually enjoy being in Rome.

Then head to Trevi Fountain

You’ve seen it in photos… and yes, it’s just as impressive in person.

But also- it’s crowded. Like, very.

The Trevi Fountain is one of those places where timing matters. If you can go early in the morning or later in the evening, you’ll enjoy it a whole lot more.

That said, it’s still worth it.

It’s massive, detailed, and one of those spots that really does feel a little surreal when you’re standing there. And yes- go ahead and toss the coin. If nothing else, it gives you a reason to come back

Pro Tips for Day 3

• Use this as a “slower” morning- After two packed days, don’t rush this one. Sleep in, grab a cappuccino, and ease into the day before heading to the park.
• Enter Villa Borghese from the city side- You’ll get one of the best views right away overlooking Piazza del Popolo- worth it.
• Make this a “wander and eat” day- This is the perfect day to stop trying to stick to a strict plan and just… eat your way through Rome a little. Instead of one big scheduled meal, pop into smaller spots as you go… grab a slice of pizza, split a plate of pasta, stop for gelato, then sit down later for a drink or appetizer. You’ll find tons of small restaurants, cafés, and wine bars in this area, and honestly… it’s hard to go wrong.
• Trevi Fountain = timing matters- Midday is chaos. If you want a better experience (and photos), go early morning or later in the evening.
• Keep your expectations realistic at Trevi- It’s beautiful, but it’s not going to be a quiet, peaceful moment unless you time it right. Go in knowing that and you’ll enjoy it more.

Day 4: Day Trip to Pompeii

This is the one day on the itinerary where you’ll leave Rome… and it’s a full day, so plan accordingly.

Pompeii had been on my list for a long time, and if you’re even slightly into history, it’s one of those places that’s hard to pass up. But it’s not something I’d recommend trying to piece together last minute.

What Makes Pompeii Worth It

Pompeii is unlike anything else you’ll see on this trip.

When Mount Vesuvius erupted in 79 AD, the city was buried under ash and because of that, so much of it is still preserved. You’re not just looking at ruins… you’re walking through an actual city layout- streets, homes, bathhouses, and public spaces that have been standing for nearly 2,000 years.

It’s one of the few places where you can really start to picture what everyday life looked like back then.

And yes, the plaster casts are as intense as you’ve probably heard. It’s a reminder that this wasn’t just history… it was real life for the people who lived there.

Book This as a Tour (Highly Recommend)

This is not the day to wing it.

Between transportation, timing, and the sheer size of Pompeii, having a structured tour makes everything easier. I planned this day trip perfectly then dropped the ball on the guide. Please, learn from my mistake, DO NOT skip the guide here. Without context, it’s easy to walk through and not fully understand what you’re seeing. A guide brings it to life in a way that makes the experience actually stick with you.

I highly recommend a tour guide for this stop. The knowledge and stories will be the icing on the cake for this unforgettable experience. 

What to know before you go

• This is a long day—expect early morning to evening
• There’s a lot of walking and very little shade
• Comfortable shoes are non-negotiable
• Bring water, especially in warmer months

Is It Worth It?

If you’re deciding between staying in Rome or adding Pompeii… it really comes down to what you want out of the trip.

If you love history and want to see something completely different from the rest of Rome—this is worth the time.

If your goal is a slower, more relaxed Rome experience, you could skip it and stay local.

We chose to go—and I’m glad we did—but it’s definitely the most time-intensive day of the itinerary.

Day 5: Pantheon, Spanish Steps + Wander

Start with the Pantheon

By Day 5, you’ve seen a lot—but the Pantheon is still one of those places that makes you stop for a second.

From the outside, it’s impressive. Inside, it’s a different level.

The dome is massive (and still one of the largest of its kind), and the oculus at the top lets in natural light that moves through the space throughout the day. It’s simple compared to some of the other sites you’ve seen—but that’s kind of what makes it stand out.

It’s also one of the best-preserved structures in Rome, which is wild considering how old it is.

This is an easy stop, doesn’t take a ton of time, and is 100% worth working into your last day.

Walk to the Spanish Steps

From there, make your way over to the Spanish Steps.

This is less about “seeing a landmark” and more about soaking in the atmosphere. It’s busy, a little chaotic, and exactly what you’d expect from one of the most well-known spots in the city.

Find a place to sit (if you can), take it in for a bit, and do some people watching. The views from the top are worth the climb, and the surrounding area is great if you want to wander into shops or grab a drink nearby.

Leave Time to Wander (This Part Matters) 

Don’t over-plan your last day.

Some of our favorite moments in Rome weren’t scheduled—they were the slower afternoons where we sat outside, had a drink, ordered way too much food, and just watched the city move around us.

We ended up going back to the same restaurant more than once and even made a connection with the maître d (still friends to this day—which honestly says a lot about how memorable those moments were).

That’s the part of Rome you don’t want to rush.

Walk without a plan, stop when something looks good, grab a cappuccino, try another plate of pasta—even if you’ve already had three that week.

Wrap Up Your Time in Rome

Five days goes fast here, but it’s enough to see the highlights and actually enjoy the experience if you plan it right.

Rome is one of those places that lives up to the hype—but it’s also one of those trips that’s so much better when you have a plan.

Five days is the perfect amount of time to see the highlights, experience the history, and still leave room to slow down and actually enjoy it.

If you’re anything like me, you’re not just looking to “get there”… you want a trip that feels worth the time, the money, and the effort it takes to make it happen.

And that’s exactly why I plan the way I do.

If you want help mapping out your own trip—from flights and stays to what’s actually worth your time once you’re there—I’ve got you.

Check out my travel planning resources here: Planning Bucket List Trips
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Adventure awaits,
Sarah

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